What would others who are close to you in your life say about the thoughts you are thinking and the actions you are taking?
Since these individuals play such an important role in your life, their opinions are particularly important since many of the thoughts you think will be about the thoughts they think about you and if these thoughts are not favorable, then the thoughts you have as you think about them thinking about you will be negative bad feeling thoughts as a result and this will dramatically affect your point of attraction, the way you feel overall, and the way the experiences you attract make you feel overall.
For this reason, you should do your best to refine the thoughts you think and the actions you take to better suit the preferences of those around you and those who play an important role in your life so that you may feel very good as you think about them and yourself to thus greatly improve the way you feel, your point of attraction, and the way the experiences you attract make you feel.