The butterfly is beautiful to those who gaze upon it, because the butterfly gives its attention to the world and the world is beautiful to the butterfly. Thus, the butterfly vibrates in harmony with the vibrational frequency of the beauty it witnesses and this vibrational frequency is then emanated from it and that vibration is what forms the butterfly that is believed to be beautiful.
You too can change that which others see when they gaze upon you by changing your personal vibrational frequency to better match a more desirable vibrational frequency. For instance, you can choose to give your attention to the beauty of the world that surrounds you to begin vibrating at that vibrational frequency so that everyone who gazes upon you will witness the same vibrational frequency emanating from you.
