Improvements in your life experience can only be as good as the improvements you make to the thoughts you think and they can only occur as quickly as your thoughts improve. This phenomenon is due to the fact that your life experiences always match the thoughts you think and actually are the thoughts you are thinking as you experience them.
Thus, as your thoughts change, so do your life experiences and your life experiences may only change as much and as quickly as your thoughts change. By greatly improving the desirability of the thoughts you think, the desirability of your life experiences will also be greatly improved to the extent you improve the desirability of your thoughts.