To achieve your desires, you must first sustain the vibration that would be maintained were your desires to manifest. The increasing likeness of your vibration to that of your desire will then directly correspond with the rate at which the desire manifests.
Since thoughts of all topics in your life help to define your vibration, all of your thoughts about all topics must be harmonized with the vibration of your desire, otherwise an experience of a differing nature will manifest in its place.
To do this, make the thoughts you think about all topics in your life more like the thought of your desire's manifestation thereby making your vibration and your reality more like that of your desire to the degree your thoughts of all topics are harmonized with your desire's vibration.