One of the most powerful processes you will ever come across is that of refusing to be negative. The reason for this is quite simple too, because as you experience negativity, you are then experiencing a decrease in the desirability of your reality. Thus, as you experience positivity, you are then experiencing an increase in the desirability of your reality, and the more do you experience of either, the greater is the resulting change being experienced. Therefore, by refusing to be negative, you are essentially refusing to allow for your reality to be decreased in desirability. The natural consequence of this decision is that of an ever-increasing desirability of your reality since in the absence of any decreases in the desirability of your reality, your reality may only increase in desirability.
The greater is your commitment to refusing to be negative, the greater will be the reduction in negativity, and thus the greater will be the increases in positivity. Furthermore, the more extensively are you able to increase the desirability of your thoughts, the greater will be the degree to which your reality is then increasing in desirability. In other words, with your every thought, you are experiencing the state of your reality, and as your thoughts increase in desirability, so increases the desirability of your reality.
Being that your every thought translates into an emotion of a matching vibration, your reality thus becomes that of an emotion in that you are experiencing the state of your reality with every emotion that is experienced. Therefore, the more desirable is the emotion you are experiencing, the more desirable is the reality then being experienced. By refusing to be negative, you are essentially allowing for the desirability of the emotion you are experiencing to be increased, and the more successfully are you able to resist the temptation to be negative, the more desirable will your reality become in the form of a more desirable emotional state.
The difficulty you will encounter here is the fact that there is a natural tendency to be negative due to the forces of gravity wanting to average your vibration with the lower frequency vibrations by which you are surrounded. Ergo, were you to not take any steps to deliberately be positive in order to resist the negativity, your thoughts would naturally follow a negative pattern thereby gradually resulting in a reduction of the desirability of your emotional state. This is precisely why a commitment to remaining positive is so essential, because even when you make the decision to try to be positive, you are going to be countered by the natural forces of gravity which will create a tendency towards negativity.
By being aware of this phenomenon, you may simply acknowledge negativity for what it is and attempt to counteract it through the thinking of more desirable thoughts. The more desirable do your thoughts become, the more distanced will your thoughts and emotions be from the lower frequency vibrations in your surroundings. Thus, the more do you attempt to be positive, the greater will become the urge to transition into a negative state of mind since the surrounding vibrations will then have a greater effect upon your higher frequency vibration. Fortunately, the higher in frequency is the thought you are choosing to think, the more capable will you become at resisting this natural transition towards negativity. In other words, the more desirable is the thought you are choosing to think, the less probable will it be that your thoughts will transition into a negative state of mind since a more desirable thought leads to other thoughts of a similar desirability. For this reason, it is of the utmost importance that you attempt to identify the most desirable thoughts of which you are aware so that you may think those thoughts as often as possible to further mitigate the natural forces of gravity.